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Mar 8Liked by Suw Charman-Anderson

Yes and…. Is so helpful in writing and in life.

I also find it helpful to listen to who the watcher at the gates sounds like. Is it my mom? My 5th grade teacher? A work colleague?

If it doesn’t sound like me, it’s a game I don’t want to play. If it sounds like me, I gently ask for it to come back later.

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That is a wonderful approach, I like it a lot!

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Urgh the watcher. I got so much in my head during my one and only improv course that I abandoned it after failing a level. I became focussed on the fact that English not being my first language was a barrier to me achieving a decent interaction and to others understanding me. Also I am kinda convinced that I might be a sociopath in English and really funny in Italian (backed by studies!)

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I can understand why doing improv in a second language can be hard. I'm not sure I could do it in Welsh – my brain doesn't quite work that fast in Welsh yet.

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Feb 21Liked by Suw Charman-Anderson

I have a deal with my internal editor (her name is Rebecca). When I write first drafts, she's locked away in the bedroom. With lots of books to read, of course, and food and water--I'm not an animal. She can't come out until I finished the first draft, though. After I finished the first draft, I'm happy to listen to all her evaluations of my writing, because she does make my writing better.

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I love this!

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